You know that every Friday night, millions of dudes around the globe, from New York to China, dress their best and head to the popular pickup spots in the hopes of finding a girl. Of course, they might pretend like they’re just “going out for a beer with the boys,” but loads of them are really looking to get lucky tonight with a .

And right there lies their first mistake: viewing their mission tonight in terms of “getting lucky.” A lot of men really believe that hooking up with a woman at a nightclub is about luck, fate, or being in the right place at the perfect time.

Guys like these don’t understand that when it comes to how to approach women in bars, there are various “classic errors” that men make all the time — ruining their chances without even being aware of it — and that there are specific techniques you can employ to just about guarantee a victorious outcome.

For one guy, “success” might mean meeting a cool girl and going home with her digits. But for guys who’ve perfected their approach and conversation skills, success is defined another way.

Ask them what their goals are when they go out to the bar, and they’ll say that anything short of a “same night lay” — getting a hot girl home with them TONIGHT — is a waste of a night.

The trouble is that more than 90% of guys have no idea how to approach girls and generate attraction. And they’re too scared to approach women because of the significant amount of UNCERTAINTY that is part of it.

Give this some thought for a second. What runs through your head when see a hottie at a bar that you would LOVE to approach? You might be thinking…

“A girl THAT gorgeous must already have a boyfriend.”
“She doesn’t look like she’s in the mood to be disturbed.”
“I’m probably not her type.”

Or, the typical male excuse…

“I want to approach her, but I have no idea what to say!”

What’s really going on here is that you are only picturing the possible NEGATIVE results. This is because you’ve trained yourself to believe that the most likely outcome, when you approach women in bars, is that women won’t want to talk to you.

For men who don’t know how to get girls, this often IS the result. And after going through this awkward process dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these guys stop approaching women in bars altogether.

They think , “why bother? She’s only going to react the way the last 1 girls did. She won’t be interested for some reason, and then I’ll have to put up with the embarrassment of walking away with my tail between my legs.”

I’m here to tell you that you can learn how to approach girls in a way that is fun, playful, confident and most of all Tactical. There are some powerful, specific “openers” you can start using with women that will make them curious, and engage their attention.

We’ve tested every one of these techniques out in the field literally hundreds of times, to make sure these are the very top ways to “break the ice” and launch an interaction.

Girls WON’T see you as some clumsy, insecure guy who is hoping to NOT get blown off. Rather, girls will right away sense that you’re a man who can add MORE FUN to their night.

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How To Approach Women At Work

Virtually every guy I’m aware of (including myself) has gotten into this situation in the past: there’s a stunner you work with, or who works in the same building, and you’d like to be MORE than her “colleague.”

You want to make something happen with this girl and take it to a sexual level! But you DON’T take action, because you can only conceive of the possible BAD results.

Obviously, the #1 negative result that men are afraid of is, “if I try to ask her out and she blows me off, it will be really AWKWARD having to be around her every day from now on! I wouldn’t be able to face her again…”

The reality is, whether you’re wondering how to approach women at work, or in any other environment, it’s LIMITING BELIEFS like these that paralyze us, and stop us from getting what we’re after.

The same guy who doesn’t know have the skills to approach women at work will probably find it just as challenging to walk up to girls at a club. He’ll tell himself things like:

“A girl THAT hot must already be ‘taken’.”
“I’m probably not her type.”
“She looks like she isn’t in the mood to be approached right now.”

Or, the most popular guy excuse…

“I want to talk to her, but I have no idea what to say!”

Why do you cripple yourself with these limiting beliefs? Because you think that the most likely outcome when you approach women is FAILURE.

And so, your nervous system is hard-wired to equate approaching women with PAIN.

Well, what if I could show you how to “reprogram” your nervous system so that you think about approaching women in a totally different way? What if you could learn how to approach women at work in a style that is playful, confident, and ELIMINATES any chance of rejection?

And furthermore, what if I taught you a technique that makes it virtually IMPOSSIBLE for you to get dissed?

I’m being serious here. There’s an approach method that I want to explain right now, and if you use it when you approach women at work there’s practically NO WAY that it can backfire on you.

Essentially, it’s a super crafty “stealth” way of getting a date with her, without having to ask her on a regular “date”.

Maybe that seems like it would be hard to pull off, but believe me, this technique is super effective.

I used to work with a babe at my business who was a incredibly cute Asian girl (and totally single), and for a really long time I wanted to ask her on a date.

My attraction to her must have been clear, because one day a friend of mine at work pulled me aside and explained to me how to approach women at work. (This dude was a TOTAL womanizer back in his day…now he married and settled down, but he was happy to share some advice.)

This guy demonstrated a way to approach women at work that has NEVER disappointed me since. No getting blown off, no uneasiness, no humiliation…just perfect consequences.

One of the reasons why this method of approaching women at work is so efficient is that you eliminate her chief concern: that if the two of you hook up, the word might spread and become the subject of “office gossip.”

With this tactic, you’re going to drop a very subtle hint to her about you being a DISCREET dude. In other words, she’ll know that if she goes out with you and things “happen,” it’s going to be a secret between you and her.

Of course, you’re not going to actually SAY that you are a discreet dude. When you use this strategy, you’re going to plant this “discretion seed” in her subconscious mind by using a certain “language trick.”

If you want to know how to approach women at work, this trick makes it FUN and EASY. And, you don’t even need to worry about getting rejected — because the way you’re going to “frame” this conversation, getting blown off won’t even be in the cards!

Alright, I know you want to learn this technique and I don’t want to keep you on pins and needles any longer. Visit our page on the secrets of how to approach women at work. You’ll find some ridiculously clever, effective strategies that are going to TURBO CHARGE your confidence and skills.

If you’re ready to learn how to approach a woman in any situation, master these tactics and get started now!

I assume you are aware of “Sinn” if you are familiar with the seduction community and the experts who teach pickup.

One of the most innovative coaches in the seduction community, Sinn has come up with many intelligent concepts in regards to picking up girls and making them feel fast sexual chemistry with you.

The other day I spoke with him about Sinn PUA Tactics (you can check out these 90 minutes of incredible video modules by visiting our Sinn PUA page), and he explained a lot of his best techniques (and told some mind-blowing hook-up stories) — but Sinn made one statement in particular that caught my ear.

He said, “fun is the ultimate attraction switch.”

Yes, I know that might sound a bit basic and obvious, but this is actually very powerful advice. And, it’s one of the main elements of the Sinn PUA method.

As simple as the importance of “fun” may seem, so many guys get this all wrong. For instance, when the common man tries to talk to a girl in a bar, he will play it “safe” by engaging her in a totally predictable conversation. He asks her a bunch of standard things about herself, and tells her basic things about himself. He gauges his “success” by how long he can draw the conversation out.
But in nearly every situation, after 5 or 10 minutes of this redundant conversation — or after she finishes the drink he excitedly bought for her — she excuses herself (to go “find her friend,” or whatever), and you’ve now officially blown your chance. He never built a genuine connection with her, so even if he did manage to get her phone number, he’s lucky if she even remembers who he is when he call her the next day.

The Sinn PUA philosophy towards injecting FUN into the encounter is essential. Always make it a point to RAISE the energy level (or “fun level”) of the girl, or the group of girls, that you start talking to. They may not be out tonight to try to meet their dream guy. But there is no question they are here to have fun. Make them think that YOU are the guy who holds the keys to an awesome, memorable evening, and hot chicks won’t want to leave your side.

This PUA Sinn strategy is extremely critical if you’re going to get a girl to come home with you at the end of the night. This “fun” strategy is a key part of building sexual chemistry and framing yourself as a highly desirable “prize” that women want to win — instead of you being just another ordinary guy who has to hope he gets “lucky” every time he goes out.
Now, what are the exact techniques you’ll want to use to give girls that fun they crave, and make them feel ATTRACTED to you instead of just viewing it as a normal, predictable conversation?

We’ll explain all of these methods in our Sinn PUA package — and if you start using these simple techniques with women when you go out, be prepared to start experiencing a whole new level of success with women.

Hi, this is Dean Cortez from Mack Tactics with some more tips on how to take your confidence to the next level.

I want to show you a letter from a reader that asks a fundamental question about how to get girls, and then I’ll give my solution…

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Hey Dean,

There’s this girl that I’ve felt attracted to for a LONG time. A couple of weeks ago the guy she’d been dating broke up with her.

So I was hanging out with her a couple of nights ago, and I finally built up the courage to to her, “Hey, in all honesty, would you ever date a guy like me?”

She told me, “Well, honestly…you’re too nice. For some reason, I like jerks. I know that sounds bad, but it’s the truth.”

I was a bit stunned and didn’t know what to say. So I just acted like I only joking around, and wasn’t really into her, but inside I felt crushed.

I guess it’s true what they say: “nice guys finish last.” I can’t figure this out, Dean — why women always seem to go for guys who are liars and jerks, while nice guys like me get left out in the cold.

I’m really hoping you have an answer to this…

- Vincent, California

>>>DEAN CORTEZ RESPONDS:>>>

Dean Cortez here. Before I got my skills and confidence with women and mastered this “game,” I used to be a classic example of a Nice Guy.

When I reflect on how many girls I COULD have hooked up with…but didn’t, because my ass-backwards “Nice Guy” strategy messed everything up…I want to bang my head into the wall!

Back in those days, when I was attracted to a girl, I always made myself available to her. I’d talk with her on the phone, or on the Internet, for as long as she wanted to. If she asked me to meet up and do something, I’d put aside whatever I was doing and go see her.

If she was having problems with whatever dude she was dating at the time, I’d listen to her and try to be supportive.

The bottom line was, instead of working on making her feel SEXUAL ATTRACTION towards me, I behaved like her “friend” who didn’t have any other agenda.

I tried to act as if I wasn’t like “those other guys” who only wanted to sleep with her.

Of course, the whole time I was pretending to be “Mr. Nice Guy,” all I could THINK about was getting intimate with that girl…

I made the killer mistake that so many men make — thinking that building a FRIENDSHIP first was going to get me the sexual relationship later, if only I spent enough time building her trust.

But as you probably know, it never pans out this way. The guy keeps treading water in the “Friend Zone” until one of two things happens (and both outcomes are bad):

1. One night he finally decides to tell her what he really wants — and she totally shoots him down that leads to a rejection.

2. Or, she starts dating another guy who doesn’t want her “Nice Guy” friend hanging around. So, she stops hanging out him completely.

(Think about it, if you were dating a girl, would you want her “Nice Guy” buddy hanging around her all the time, obviously hoping to get in her pants? Of course not, you’d tell your girl to stop spending time with him.)

Look, I want to clarify some misunderstandings about Nice Guys and Bad Boys — because the truth is, “Nice Guys” really aren’t as sweet and honest as they like to say they are.

In fact, Nice Guys are often being WAY more dishonest that the Bad Boys!

Put it this way…

When a Nice Guy is always hanging around a woman he is HOPING to turn into his girlfriend, everything he does is a deception!

The entire “friendship” he is creating with the girl is phony. He really just wants to get her into bed! He is using this friendship as a TACTIC to try to get what he is truly after.

Well as you may have found out for yourself, it’s a lousy tactic. It never really works. And don’t think you’re fooling the girl: if she knows that she is sexually desirable, and she knows you’re not gay, then obviously she knows what you REALLY want is to sleep with her.

She knows what the Nice Guy is REALLY trying to get from this “friendship”. But she’s not going to give it to him, because he isn’t demonstrating any of the qualities that she finds SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE in a man.

The Nice Guy is showing weakness instead of confidence. He’s also showing that he is completely available to spend as much time as possible with this girl, instead of being a guy with a full social life and OTHER options.

(Remember, girls want a man who is wanted by other women! They are highly competitive!)

Bad Boys DO have these qualities that women are hard-wired to chase after. And when Bad Boys talk to women, they do so in a flirty, sexual, masculine way.

I have a good buddy who is total Bad Boy with women. He’s not some tattooed UFC fighter, rock musician, or strip club bouncer. In fact, he wears a suit every day to his 9-to-5 corporate job.

But when he interacts with women, he projects a total Bad Boy vibe. This means he is playful and flirtatious — and he also acts like he is not easily impressed, no matter how hot she is.

I was with him at a bar a few nights ago. He said to a girl…

“I hope your boyfriend isn’t here, because I’m about to totally flirt with you. How can I not, when you’re wearing an outfit like that?”

He delivered this opener with a confident smile and the right body language. He then transitioned into the conversation with no delay (this is all explained in the Mack Tactics “Ultimate Approach” book), and started moving things in the right direction.

He asked her some clever questions to get her sharing things about herself, and then he said to her:

“You’re actually pretty cool, it’s a shame that it would never work out between us. You’re nothing like the girls I usually date.”

Then he immediately switched the conversation to a new topic. He didn’t give her any further explanation — which messed with her mind a bit, and made her want to PROVE that she was worthy of dating a guy him!

A few minutes later he started talking to her about how he loves getting a good massage. He said to her, “If you know how to give amazing massages, then this MIGHT work out between us. If not, it’s ok, I can be your wingman tonight and help you meet someone.”

(This is a cool game to play with women. Tell her you’re going to be HER wingman! Then point out some dudes in the room that you know she will TOTALLY NOT be interested in, and offer to hook her up…she will laugh and squirm…then keep teasing her and flirting.)

Then he used another classic “Bad Boy” tactic on her: he WALKED AWAY.

Yes! He told her he had to go say hi to some people and that he’d come back and talk to her a little later.

Then he walked away and hung out with me and my buddies for 10 minutes. We were all joking around and having a good time, and the whole time, the girl was WATCHING him and WAITING for him to come back and keep flirting with her!

Eventually, he did…and a short time after that, he used a “Deal Closer” technique to pull her out of the venue and take her back to his place.

The *trick* to getting really successful with women is to add a “Bad Boy Edge” to your game that conveys confidence and masculinity.

I’m not saying you need to act like a jerk, or disrespect women. Girls are not “into” those qualities. Rather, they will ACCEPT these qualities from a Bad Boy who she is strongly attracted to.

You can be the best of both worlds: a laidback, polite, respectful guy, but one who also has the BAD BOY EDGE that makes women desire you in a sexual way — not just “as a friend.”

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If you’re ready to learn how to get girls the same way the world’s best pickup artists do it, go to the Mack Tactics site now and download your free copy of this book while it’s still available.